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A place to share the great experiences that have happened as a direct result of Positive Thinking. Also quotes and inspiring stories to encourage others. Need a boost? This is the place to get it! All positive thinkers are welcome!

Website: http://www.pennyabshire.com
Location: San Diego, CA
Members: 1126
Latest Activity: Apr 10

Penny's Story:

In college I studied journalism and theater arts. My dream was a career in the theater. I was also a trained classical pianist and had aspirations of going on tour. But, alas, it was my heart that turned me from that direction. I fell in love and put homemaking and motherhood ahead of those dreams. Mind you, I have never regretted it!  I have been married to the same great guy for 46 years – have two amazing sons, two equally amazing daughters-in-law and four beautiful grand kids! But as one does, as I grew older I often wondered what "could have been."

As my kids got older, I went back into the work force as a secretary and then later as a paralegal. It was good, steady money, it was safe and I was very good at it. But for the most part, I hated it! For a creative person, that kind of repetitive work is just a slow, lingering death. Please don't misunderstand and think I don't admire those who work as secretaries or paralegals - I certainly do! It just wasn't where I was supposed to be. But because it was “safe,” I continued working and justifying to myself that I was doing the responsible thing.

I went to my very first voice over class at the ripe old age of 47. In fact, I went kicking and screaming! I didn't want to go and a friend practically had to shove me through the door! Mostly it was because I was afraid of looking foolish or failing. I am so glad I did it anyway! I left that first 3-hour class (taught by James Alburger) KNOWING that voice acting was what I was supposed to be doing with the rest of my life. I can't explain it, I just KNEW. This short introductory class literally changed the direction of my life! It seemed I had been asking God for so many years what my "real" purpose was in life and that night I got my answer.

Then, the "voices" started talking to me. . . "You're too old! What's wrong with you? This isn't the type of career you start when you're almost 50 years old! You idiot! You’re going to look ridiculous in class. Everyone there will be younger and more talented than you!” And on and on and on and on. It was a continuous flow of negative thoughts. Like most people, those voices in my head were VERY loud and for almost a year, I let them win. My family would ask, “Are you ever going to take those voice classes, mom?” And I would reply, “Oh, yes – definitely. I’m definitely going to take them. . .someday!” One day, my youngest son asked me that question and when I replied with, “Someday . . .” he said, “Mom, admit it – if you weren’t scared to do it, you would have already done it!”

Out of the mouths of babes…… Well, he was 22 at the time, but still......

Anyway, I called Jim that day and signed up for classes. And it was hard to make that call. My "voices" were extremely loud! But because of my son, I finally had the courage to tell them to shut up! I finally found the courage to follow my dreams. One of the things that got me "off my duff" was this thought - In 10 years I will be 57. Do I want to look back in 10 years and say, “Darn, I wish I’d done that!” Or do I want to look back and see all I have accomplished in the last 10 years doing what I love? It was pretty much a no-brainer in my book. But imagine my very conservative husband's face when I announced I was quitting a good paying job with benefits to work as an actor! Fortunately, after 29 years of marriage, he understood me pretty well. But I'm sure at the time he thought I'd lost my mind! Now he can't tell enough people what I do and he brags about me and my accomplishments constantly --- I really love that!

That was 17 years ago this year (2015). Today I work full-time as a busy voice actor, director, copywriter and producer. I have written my first book. I am the Executive Producer of the only Voiceover Convention in the world – VOICE (VoiceOver International Creative Experience) and I have hundreds of students who I now call dear friends! I have traveled all over the world and met some incredible people while teaching. My days are filled with excitement and anticipation - something I never experienced as a secretary! It's something new every day. New projects, new scripts, new techniques, new teachers and best of all - new people! And I work with the nicest guy on the planet - my first teacher and now my partner and best friend, James Alburger.

Yes, the last 17 years have been absolutely wonderful and I believe I’m only getting started. My goal for the next 17 years? It's the same it has always been. . .

I want to help as many people as I possibly can to realize their dreams!

When 10 more years have passed, I know I will again look back and be excited about what's been accomplished!

So, for any of you out there who think you’re too old (or any other excuse you're currently using) to pursue your voice acting career, please don't let your age be an obstacle. Age is only a number. I know I don't feel (or act) like I'm 64 but that's what the calendar says. Actually, I'm darn proud of being my age and to be doing what I'm doing. Sadly, I've seen too many people hold themselves back from accomplishing their dreams because of what other people might think. You just have to say, "Ah, to heck with them!” If you have a dream (and it is truly your heart’s desire) the ONLY person who can stop you --- is you.

You only have one life. Choose to enjoy it doing something you love!

Will you share YOUR story with us?


My best wishes to you all!

Penny

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Comment by Dawn Harvey on December 16, 2010 at 12:21am

Man I hope that link works.  Let me know if it doesn't.  You have got to watch this wonderful BBC video - hilarious VO work.  Penny, watching this video over and over will speed up your recovery.  They say laughter does that!  Hope the surgery went really well and you'll be up dancing again soon.

Comment by Penny Abshire on December 16, 2010 at 12:21am

Les here - Penny is out of surgery and doing well. The doctor is confident that they were able to fix her problem, although the disc compression and bone spurs were more than they expected. She's all drugged up right now - but wanted me to let you know your prayers and positive energy certainly did the trick! Thanks to everyone!

Comment by Dawn Harvey on December 16, 2010 at 12:19am
Comment by Denedria Banks on December 15, 2010 at 11:33am

Be well Penny! Positive thoughts coming your way!

Comment by Andy Boyns on December 15, 2010 at 6:31am

Wonderful video, demonstrating the power of team-work and having fun. Especially for Penny to wish her well in her operation, that she too may soon again be dancing, and live her favourite quote: "Those who dance are considered insane by those who cannot hear the music"

Comment by Leslie Diamond on December 13, 2010 at 12:32pm

Healing prayers on their way, Penny. G-d bless ...

Comment by Kevin Doherty on December 13, 2010 at 10:49am

 

All with you Penny, safe procedure and quick and easy recovery!

 

Best Wishes,

Kevin

Comment by Kerry D (WOODY) Woodrow on December 13, 2010 at 5:18am

 If love can protect then you are absolutely invincible Penny. I will be holding you in my heart Wednesday, as will everyone here, hoping everything goes perfect for you and your back.

Comment by Shane Shellenbarger on December 13, 2010 at 12:23am

Penny,

           If you need anything while you're in my neck-of-the-woods, please let me know. Best wishes for a safe surgery and speedy recovery.

 

Shane

Comment by Jack Hamlett on December 13, 2010 at 12:20am

Be well Penny . James said you were going to Scottsale where we live.

 i was at the Audacity class saturday with Barry. All my best to you .

God be with you .

Jack

 

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